Yesterday one of Jaiden's little school-friends called (actually her mom called) to see if Jaiden could walk home with her daughter after school and stay for a play date. Jaiden was thrilled and started jumping up and down at the prospect. I said that would be great and I would pick her up after on my way to class. Jaiden had been there before for a birthday party but this was her first play date with this friend. Well today ended up being a busy day. I babysat our cute neighbor girls in the morning and then Janika and a friend came home for lunch after the matinee' of their play. I brought Jani and her friend back to school and soon after the kids arrived home early because of Parent Teacher Conferences. (Speaking of which, I went to all three conferences yesterday and they all got absolutely glowing reports).
Jase usually rides the bus, but I got a call from him saying he needed a ride home since he had stayed after school for student council. Rick called and asked if I could meet him at the hospital before my class to visit a member of our branch who had recently had surgery. So I dropped Janelle off to piano and called to make sure Jared got off to scouts. I told Janika there was a ham cooking and asked if she could start some rice and vegetables and asked her to remind Rick to bring Jared to pack meeting when he got home.
I taught my class and it went well. As soon as I start teaching I become absorbed in that and all thoughts of home are out of my mind until the drive home. I thought it was cute that my whole class (I only have 10 students and two were missing today) squeezed together to be on the front row. It is arranged in tables and doesn't fit everyone on one row but they squeezed in so that no one would be left out on a different row. I said I felt very privileged to have a class where everyone wanted to sit on the front row!
Anyway, I was driving home feeling happy and calm when Rick called and said, "Jaiden still isn't home..." "JAIDEN?? OH NO! I completely forgot about her! I can't believe it -- she is still at her friend's house and has been there for (I quickly did the math) SIX HOURS! OH NO! I am SO embarrassed!" I drove as fast as I dared to pick her up, mentally conjuring up all of my pathetic excuses for forgetting her. I imagined the mother checking the clock hour after hour, wondering exactly what kind of mother would leave her six year old with someone they hardly knew for hours on end.
Anyway, I arrived and apologized profusely again and again and explained that I had completely forgotten about her (terrible, I know). It wouldn't have been so bad if it was someone I knew well and that knew that I was normally a very responsible person. Of course she was very gracious and understanding and said that the girls had played and had a great time and Jaiden just ate dinner with them.
I told her I hoped we could do another play date again if she wasn't scared off by this fluke of irresponsibe behavior. She assured me that they would do it again. When I got home I asked Rick if he didn't wonder where Jaiden was. He said he did but that the kids just said she was at a friend's house. He asked our kids if the friend's parents were bringing her home and they said yes so he didn't worry about it.
No, I was supposed to pick her up and man was I ever MORTIFIED that I forgot. I suppose it could have been worse. At least it wasn't one of those "left my child at the gas station" stories. But I still feel terrible! Jaiden didn't care, she had a great time. Well, I guess I will go check my calendar for the twentieth time today to make sure I haven't forgotten anything important!