Sunday, January 26, 2025

Teddi Lynn Covey von Pingel

 

I was distraught to learn last summer that Teddi had experienced a series of strokes. After suffering for months, she passed away due to complications from a MRSA infection.

Teddi and I crossed paths while serving missions for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. In 1989 I was called to serve a mission in Atlanta, Georgia in the ASL program. Teddi was serving in North Carolina and had been transferred to Georgia where she was assigned to be my trainer. I am sure it wasn’t easy to transfer to a completely different mission to open up a new area from scratch with a brand-new companion, who was still struggling to learn the language! But Teddi accepted these challenges with determination. She was naturally gifted in American Sign Language and made instant connections with the Deaf Community in our area. I loved watching her express herself through ASL and hoped that one day I would be able to express myself in ASL as beautifully and fluently as she did!

I learned so much from Teddi. We experienced many challenges and a wide range of emotions during the five months that we served together and I am grateful for Teddi’s example of empathy and understanding. Besides our mutual love for ASL and the Deaf Community, we also shared a love of music. Teddi was skilled in both singing and playing the piano and we had the opportunity to perform several musical numbers together during the time that we were missionary companions. After our missions we kept in touch on and off through the years and I was in awe of everything that she accomplished! One of the more recent highlights for me included the opportunity to attend her workshop titled, "Be Strong Little Marshmallow!" Thank you, Teddi, for your example, and for being a trainer, mentor, and friend!  

🤟Wendy Westra Jensen














Obituary

Teddi Lynn Covey von Pingel passed away at 9:00 PM on Friday, January 10th, 2025 in Mesa, Arizona at the age of 58, after various strokes and a complication with a MRSA infection.

Teddi was a most kind, highly intelligent, considerate, thoughtful, lovely, loving, sensitive person. She was happiest as a mother and wife. She cherished her immediate family and loved her extended family. Teddi wanted to be a mom over anything else and eventually she and Eric were blessed with two girls and a boy.

Teddi is survived by her loving and devoted husband, Eric von Pingel; her children, Olivia, D’Artagnan (Mackenzie), and Sophia; her siblings, Sean, Cami, Aaron, Damon, Josh, and Brendan; her mother, Priscilla Covey; as well as her aunts, uncles, and many nieces and nephews.

Teddi was born January 5th 1967 in Globe, Arizona to Priscilla and Clay Covey. She grew up in Globe, went to school, and finished her schooling at Dobson High School in Mesa, Arizona in 1984. She went on to pursue a short period of design school in Los Angeles, and a small amount of schooling at BYU, before serving an ASL (American Sign Language) assigned LDS Mission in the Georgia/Tennessee area, which helped shape many aspects of her life and career.

Teddi first met Eric on May 29th, 1997 on the internet at ldssingles.com. Although she was in Arizona and Eric was in California, it did not take long before they wanted to meet in person. On June 19th, 1997 Teddi flew out to meet Eric in CA and it was magical from day one. Eric asked Teddi to marry him on the drawbridge at Sleeping Beauty’s Castle, Disneyland on August 2nd, 1997. Eric was later able to secure a job in Arizona in November, and moved out to Arizona for the two to be married on December 20th, 1997. Eric and Teddi began their marriage in Arizona for 8 ½ years, then moving to Utah for 17 years, and back to Mesa, AZ in 2023. They spent 27 wonderful years together and wished for so much more

Teddi revisited her schooling after all of her kids were in school full time. Teddi then graduated with her Bachelor’s Degree in 2014 studying Deaf Studies/Interpreting from Utah Valley University, her Master’s Degree in 2016 studying Interpreting Pedagogy from University of North Florida, and her Doctorate in 2019 studying Education, Innovation and Leadership from Arizona State University.

Teddi worked for the Chandler School District, Sorenson Communications, many different Interpreting agencies, UNF and UVU as an adjunct professor, UTRID as President from 2021-2023, and Family Fusion/Fusion You as COO. Leading up to the life-changing strokes in 2024, she worked on an ASL app, entitled ASL Flurry, with a good friend. She had passion for every job and gave each one 100% effort. She truly enjoyed interpreting, although at times it was physically challenging, and she especially had a lot of passion for her last position, looking forward to its future. Teddi impacted so many lives throughout her career.

Teddi also had immense passion for other parts of everyday life. She loved all forms of crafts such as scrapbooking, sewing, decorating, drawing/painting, pottery, and more. She loved collecting earrings of all colors, shapes and sizes. She loved to read, especially for her own growth and education. She loved being a mom, which was a lifetime dream. She loved Disneyland and anything Disney. She absolutely loved Christmas. Teddi had become a dog mom and truly loved her doggies, Tinkerbell, Ginger, Poppy, and her Grand-Dog Sam. She had a real desire and passion to learn, from Water Zumba to learning the Cherokee Language to respect her heritage. She loved and had future plans to travel. She was able to go to Austria with a work/school group, to Denmark with her family, to Africa with “Mother’s Beyond Borders”, and to Europe with her husband on a Christmas market trip in 2023 down the Danube River.

Teddi impacted many in her everyday life, whether it be family, friends, or other daily interactions. She became great friends with really everyone she had the chance to have a conversation with. She mentored many interpreters, and taught many others with much love, and they loved her back. She supported so many precious friends in both their good and challenging times. Her love was vast and so tangible. She will be missed by countless individuals.


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When I was searching for more information concerning Teddi's passing, I came across this wonderful interview about her done by voyage phoenix. I loved reading more of her story and learning more about her many accomplishments! 

https://voyagephoenix.com/interview/life-work-teddi-lynn-covey-von-pingel/

Today we’d like to introduce you to Teddi Lynn Covey von Pingel.

So, before we jump into specific questions about the business, why don’t you give us some details about you and your story.

I am a native of Arizona – born in Globe, Arizona (home of the most delicious Mexican food!). I am the oldest of seven children, with five brothers and one precious sister. My journey is non-traditional and at times, meandering. Right after high school graduation, I moved to Los Angeles, CA to attend fashion design school. I was 17-years old and determined to put my passion for art and clothing to good use. However, I quickly figured out that LA wasn’t for me – I was too young, too inexperienced, and too far away from home. I returned to Arizona and transferred to another school to continue working in Fashion Design. It was a slow process and when I was 21, I decided to serve a volunteer mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I was asked to learn American Sign Language (ASL) and work with the Deaf communities in North Carolina and Georgia. I didn’t know at the time, that this one decision changed my life path in ways I would be discovering for the next 30 years. I was immediately immersed in ASL and the Deaf community – a rich linguistic and cultural group. After I completed my mission, I went on to interpret in Arizona, Tennessee, Washington DC and back to Arizona, my home.

In 2006, my husband and I moved to Salt Lake City, Utah area with our three young children. I was working as a Video Relay Service interpreter for Sorenson Communications and transferred to the new location. I continued interpreting in a variety of settings, including a dedicated interpreter for a Deaf doctor in residency. In 2012, I was hired as a mentor for the Video Relay Service Interpreting Institute (VRSII) and another turn in the road began. I lOVED being a mentor! The VRSII had a School to Work program where recent college graduates would come for an intensive three-month program, onsite in SLC. I was responsible for mentoring them through the experience and in preparation for taking the national certification test for interpreters.

Since those beginning years with VRSII, I have mentored over 100 interpreters and the common challenge, outside of language acquisition and fluency, is self-confidence. I found a secondary passion – to help others build their belief in themselves and find the tools to quiet the negative self-talk in their head. I developed workshops that would extend this dialogue beyond the VRSII participants and included my local interpreting community. I then took it to other states and have continued to refine and develop an approach that allows each person to take their own approach to improve self-confidence.

In 2017, I started working with Family Fusion in Mesa, as part of their Liminal Retreat team. I took my years of experience mentoring interpreters and applied it to general life and women in all types of life journeys that want to feel empowered and confident. I have traveled with Family Fusion to support retreats in Park City, Utah, Juarez, Mexico, and back home in Mesa, Arizona. I love giving back to those I work with and the greatest joy I experience is seeing them embrace who they are and who they can be… when they feel empowered and confident.

Overall, has it been relatively smooth? If not, what were some of the struggles along the way?


Life is never smooth, but it does lead us where we need to be. One of the biggest challenges for me was trying to get the education to give me the knowledge and credentials to be an educator. I had taken classes sporadically through 20 years. However, I was raising kids and working with little time for ‘me’. In 2012, I returned to school part-time and was able to complete an associates degree in 2013, a bachelors’ degree in 2014, a master’s degree in 2015 and am currently enrolled in an educational doctorate program that I will complete in 2019. So, in seven short years, a dream I thought would never happen became a reality… and then some! I never imagined myself with a doctorate degree until I stepped on that path. It is hard. It requires sacrifice and discipline but it is not without anyone’s reach. Education has allowed me to broaden my perspectives and be exposed to other ways of thinking and seeing the world – that benefits me in all aspects of life.

My advice for young women – you can have it all, but maybe not all at once or in the order, you have decided. Be open to the journey and where life takes you. Never accept the idea that you are an ‘imposter’ and don’t know what you are doing. Life experience is valid and principles of truth are everywhere – find them! Being confident doesn’t mean bullying, being egotistical, or looking down on others. It does mean knowing who you are, being your own best cheerleader and constantly working to stay balanced in spirit, heart, and mind.

Please tell us about your work.


My current position in Sorenson Communications is a Leadership Development Specialist in the Corporate Learning and Development Department. I am designing and implementing a company-wide leadership program based on both lean and rich skills that are needed to manage people… not just things. Out program will embody principles found in the work of Brene Brown, Stephen Covey, and many others. I’m excited to see which managers will be a ‘first adopter’ in embracing these principles of people over processes. I want to inspire managers to see the potential in others and grow employee strengths, thereby also growing their own skills.

I believe my strengths to lie with people and soft skills. I was raised by a great example – my Dad. He was a chiropractor in a small town. He would post inspirational quotes every week on a large signboard outside his office. Driving through our town, you could read these small truths and reminders and in fact, people still talk about those times when Covey Chiropractic was a permanent fixture of inspiration in the town. My Dad was great with people – going out of his way to shake hands, introduce himself and make people feel comfortable. He often bartered with patients that couldn’t afford his services and he never turned anyone away that couldn’t pay. One of my fondest memories was our kitchen counters at Christmastime – covered in tamales, baked goods, fruits, nuts, candy… all gifts of gratitude from those he served. I aspire to be like him.

There’s a wealth of academic research that suggests that lack of mentors and networking opportunities for women has materially affected the number of women in leadership roles. Smart organizations and industry leaders are working to change this, but in the meantime, do you have any advice for finding a mentor and building a network?


I believe that anyone can be a mentor, truly! You don’t have to have expertise in an area to mentor in that same area. What you do need is expertise in helping others find resources, tools, and what works for them. If you are looking for a mentor, start with your closest network – family and friends. Ask around. Find someone that embodies qualities that you want to emulate and ask them to mentor you. Give back to those that mentor – find a way to be reciprocal, even if it’s not monetarily. Be like my dad, barter!

I believe in accountability to yourself and others. Set regular meetings with your mentor and do the work that they suggest, even if at first, you’re not sure it will work. Be open and be ready to look inward. I believe in mentee-driven agendas for mentoring. If you don’t know what you need, don’t expect someone else to tell you! You have your own unique ways of assessing your inner and outer skills – be prepared to discuss those!

       



Friday, January 17, 2025

Jared begins as a DJ!

Jared had his first DJ gig!! (Aside from Janelle and Bryton's wedding). It was for his friend, John and Aizy's wedding! The reception was held at the Mathis. 








Friday, January 10, 2025

Elsie's Birth Story (Ellen's Post)

Elsie's Birth Story 

(Snagged from Ellen's Blog: As Mama Sees)

Elsie girl! I’m so glad you’re here with us, healthy and strong! I love you so much. I’m working on this after Dad left the hospital for the night. You look adorable sitting in your little bassinet beside my hospital bed! You just had your first bath (on Jan 11th) and are so cute snuggled up in your blankets.




01.09.2025

38 weeks and 5 days gestation

    I had a prenatal appointment with Dr. Katherine Peacock where she swept my membranes to hopefully induce labor! At the appointment, we also talked about scheduling an induction closer to my 40-week mark, as a backup if I didn’t go into labor on my own. I was dilated to 3-4 cm and experienced some light contractions for a few hours following the membrane sweep.

    I started experiencing some painful contractions around 10/10:30 pm but was able to lay down and get to sleep around 11:00 after they calmed down some.


01.10.2025

38 weeks and 6 days gestation


    I woke up around 12:30 in a lot of pain from my contractions! I expected them to calm down again, so I rode them out for about an hour before I woke up Jase. They were intense and close together. I woke up your dad with my movement around the room, and once I decided I was in too much pain to sit around and wait any longer we loaded up into the car and got to the hospital! Your dad laughed at me because I booked it when walking around the house and into the hospital anytime I had a break between contractions. I wanted to get to my epidural as fast as possible!

    We got to the Riverton Intermountain Hospital around 2 am. I was quickly checked in triage and was found I was dilated to six cm! They got me moved to a room and ordered an epidural for me; I was still in a lot of pain anytime I had a contraction. You gave me the most painful contractions I’ve ever had! The anesthesiologist arrived quickly and got my epidural in nice and quick. When he was giving me my numbing shots (before placing the epidural catheter) I told him that I loved what I was feeling, because I knew that I wouldn’t be feeling anything pretty soon! I didn’t have any contractions while getting my epidural placed until the very end of the process when I was getting my back taped up. I was super grateful because they were coming about every 30 seconds to four minutes since they had woken me up.

    After getting my epidural placed my nurses finished all our admission paperwork and I settled in to try and get some sleep. Around 4:45 am the on-call doctor came to check me and break my water. I was dilated to 8 cm, so Jase called Auntie Lexie and my mom to come to the hospital and get ready for your arrival! They got to the hospital by 5 am, ready to entertain me. Auntie Sophie was going to come, but was out of town when you decided to come!

    Auntie Lexie and Grandma arrived quickly and we all hung around the room for a few hours while we waited for you. I started feeling pressure in my bum around 8:30 and called my nurse to check my cervix. I was dilated to 10 cm and the nurse gave Dr. Peacock a call, who in turn asked for me to do some pushes to make sure you were descending like you should be before she came in. I wanted to try pushing on my side so I laid back and we started pushing through a contraction. My epidural made my whole evening super comfy and painless, but I was still able to move my legs plenty; so I was able to move around as needed. Unfortunately, you were not happy when I was lying on either of my sides or my back (I had spent the previous two hours in the “throne position” where I was essentially sitting up, but reclined and comfy), and your heart rate dipped a good amount. We pushed through two contractions, one on each side, but you weren’t having it. The nurse called Dr. Peacock to come in right away because of your heart rate and I sat back up while we waited, which made you happy again and got your heart rate close to where it needed to be.


    When Dr. Peacock arrived she checked your position and you were at 3+ (meaning you were as low as you could get and it was push time). I reclined more but didn’t lay all the way back this time, this kept you happy enough while I pushed. I pushed through five or six contractions (I pushed three times, for 10 seconds per push, during each contraction), and you made your arrival! The hospital had a mirror mounted on the ceiling, so I was able to see your head getting closer and closer to being out while I worked on pushing. On the last contraction, you were so close that I pushed two or three more times after it was finished and you popped out! You were born at 8:49 am. You got placed on my chest right away, then we waited for your umbilical cord to stop pulsing before I cut it myself! You took a second to cry and looked like a little blue smurf, but you adjusted to your new world quickly. Your APGAR score was 8 at the one-minute mark, then 9 at the five-minute mark. I got to hold you while they did all their assessments and then got to do golden hour! Dad held you as well, and then we got you weighed and measured. You were 5lb 8oz (in the third percentile for your weight) and 18 inches long.





    About an hour and a half after your arrival, we moved from Labor and Delivery to the Postpartum Unit. They loaded me into a wheelchair, then I held you while we were wheeled over. They play a cute lullaby to celebrate each delivery when the mom and baby are wheeled to their room. I’ve never been able to bring my baby to my postpartum room with me so I cried the whole way. I have adored having you with me!


    I didn’t tear at all while I was pushing, so this has been the easiest recovery out of all of my births. Evan and Eli came to meet you right after lunch on the day you were born. Evan loved holding you and Eli liked the lights on my hospital bed. Your dad has been in and out of the hospital, spending some time with your brothers at home and some time with us. We got put in an isolation room because every other room in the maternity ward was full when we came over from Labor and Delivery. It’s a little bit smaller than a normal room, so there isn’t a couch for your dad to sleep on. He wanted to sleep at home anyway though, and your brothers were glad to have him. Other than that the only difference between our room and a normal one is that we have a heavy door with a window.


    After your birth, we had to be careful with your body temperature and your blood sugar, because you’re such a small thing. You had a couple of low blood sugar readings, so the nurse fed you some sugar gel before two of your feedings, and then you ate by bottle. Your blood sugar went right back up. Other than that we’ve breastfed and now your blood sugar has been good long enough that we don’t have to check it anymore. The only time you had issues with your body temperature was right after delivery and golden hour. Once we got you warmed back up we kept you bundled up and you did great. I love to take your hat off and see all your cute dark hair though! Your pediatrician said he saw the low blood sugar and low body temperature alerts and thought, “Another tiny Jensen!” He got to see you on the 11th, the day after you were born because they round on patients in the mornings.


Other Dates:

Oct 11th (25 weeks and 6 days) - We celebrated you with a Halloween-themed baby shower!

Oct 22nd (27 and 3) - Went into Riverton Labor and Delivery to check on contractions. I was dilated to a “tight” one cm. I received a shot of Terbutaline to stop contractions. I got to go home from triage after four hours.

Oct 28th (28 and 2) - I had some light contractions over the weekend, Dr. Peacock checked my cervix and it was still a “tight” one cm. I got my TDAP vaccine and got my first Betamethasone shot to help your lungs develop if you come early (got the second shot on Oct 29th). The Dr. changed my appointment schedule to start meeting with her weekly.

Nov 14th (30 and 5) - Went into Murray Labor and Delivery to check on contractions. I was still at one cm, so I got to go home after a few hours in triage.

Nov 18th and 19th (31 and 2-3) - I received my second dose of Betamethasone.

Dec 1st (33 and 1) - Went into Riverton Labor and Delivery to check on contractions. While I was there I progressed from one cm to “one and a wiggle,” but didn’t progress anymore so I was able to go home again!

Dec 28th and 29th (37 and 1-2) - I got admitted to Riverton Labor and Delivery overnight. I was one cm dilated when I was first checked, and still at a one after 20 minutes. My contractions were still good and I was full term, so they had me go walk the hospital to see if we could get things to progress. My contractions were really painful while I was walking stairs and doing laps around the offices. I had progressed to two cm by the time I got back. My contractions were strong enough that they wanted to admit me, but as soon as I was settled in a room they calmed down. I went on another walk, but I wasn’t in nearly as much pain and things didn’t progress further. The on-call Dr. decided to wait for Dr. Peacock to start her shift the next morning before making the call on whether they wanted to start Pitocin to get labor progressing. I went to bed around 4 am to wait. Dr. Peacock decided to send me home, so we packed things up and I took a long nap once we were home to catch back up on some sleep.

Saturday, January 4, 2025

New Year's Cruise!!

 Work cruise with Rick!!