Jared is home from his mission! It was just three days after Jase's wedding (March 17th) that we learned that the Church would be sending missionaries home early due to Covid-19. We then received an e-mail saying that Jared would be coming home May 27th (three months early). His original date was August 19th. I had mixed feelings about this! I was excited at the prospect of getting to see him in just over two months, but also sad that his mission was being cut short.
Later on the church started sending home missionaries in droves! All foreign missionaries immediately came home (many to be re-assigned to missions in the states a couple of months later). Everyone in Jared's original MTC group got sent home except for him. We wondered if this was because Jared was serving as Assistant to the President at the time. All of Jared's friends also started returning home. If they had served 18 months or longer (which I think was the case with all of his friends) then they were given an honorable release and were home to stay. Other missionaries who had served less than 18 months would be home temporarily and then reassigned to a mission within the states. So at 21 months Jared actually ended up serving longer than most of the other missionaries. He was grateful that he could stay as long as he did.
Jared was such an awesome missionary! I loved receiving his letters each week and always felt so inspired by them! There were so many changes that happened during Jared's mission (Rick points out some of them in the
MISSIONARY VIDEO he made for him). Jared still received his call through the mail in a big white envelope -- now missionaries open their calls online on their device. Instead of being nick-named "The Mormons," we are now are to refer to the church by it's official title only, "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints."
February 15, 2019 the church sent out an official letter explaining that missionaries could now call, text, or Skype home on P-days. In the past missionaries could only e-mail and were only allowed to call or Skype on Mother's Day and Christmas. This was a HUGE change! I wasn't sure how I felt about this change at first -- it definitely took some getting used to, but I learned to love it! I felt SO connected with Jared throughout his mission because there was such open communication with him. Then Covid-19 and the resulting quarantine hit the past couple of months and that severely impacted the way missionaries did their missionary work! No more knocking doors -- most missionaries were quarantined to their apartment most of the time. Missionary work was done through social media such as Facebook and lessons were taught through video calls. Amazingly enough the work still continued to progress! As Joseph Smith stated in the Standard of Truth: "...the truth of God will go forth boldly, nobly and independent..."
Now back to today...we spent yesterday and today cleaning the house, preparing food, making posters, buying balloons, preparing Jared's room (he is sharing with Josh -- good thing Jase got married just in time so that Jared had a room to come home to, ha ha!) Rick didn't want to leave too early to go to the airport because only the first hour of parking is free and then you have to pay. He originally planned on leaving at 12:45. I told him that was cutting it too close since Jared was flying in at 1:12 and it was a 25 minute drive, so we decided to leave around 12:20 instead.
Good thing we left earlier! Jared's flight was 25 minutes early! We can't fit our whole family in one car and so we drove two separate cars, actually three cars since Jase and Ellen were meeting us there. I rode with Jaiden (she drove to get driving hours) and Rick took the three youngest. Rick and the kids arrived about five minutes before we did. We were just walking into the airport when I heard Rick cheering and looked up to see Jared walking off the plane! We had barely made it just in time! Whew! I was so grateful that we left early! I would have felt so awful if he had walked off the plane and no one was there to greet him! Jared and Ellen arrived just a couple of minutes later as we were taking turns hugging Jared!
He looked great! Jared told us that he gained 30 pounds on his mission! His legs definitely look bigger and more muscular -- must have been all that time on a bike! Rick videotaped him "running" across the finish line! With all of our missionaries Rick has come up with some silly chant and then had a piece of crepe paper representing the finish line that the kids held up while the missionary ran through it. I don't think he had a chant for Janika, but he did have the finish line. Of course Jared did his serious "runner" pose just as Josh had predicted and then he ran dramatically in slow motion as we all cheered for him. He is such a nut -- boy have we missed him!
We came home (we had hung up his mission state flag and also the missionary sign that Jared had made for Jase in Digital Graphics that said "Welcome Home Elder Jensen" with a big picture of the Book of Mormon." Jenna also made a little sign for him and we had balloons hanging up.) We ate Papa Murphy's pizzas for lunch, including a Chicago Deep-Dish style pizza in honor of Jared. Then Jared gave us a really awesome lesson. Rick had Janika and Jase teach a special family lesson after their missions also. Jared said that he had remembered Jase giving his lesson and that it had really impacted him and he wanted to do the same. In fact he asked if he could give the lesson as soon as he got home, before he was released.
He taught about the apostasy and restoration and shared some really neat personal experiences about when he first received his testimony of the Book of Mormon and of the gospel. He said that he only read the Book of Mormon four times on his mission because he really wanted to delve deeply into it and study it instead of just reading it. He said when he finished the first time he prayed really hard to know if it was true. Finally, after much prayer, he had a vivid memory pop into his mind. It was when he went to his first EFY when he was 14 years old. He said that the first couple of days he really had an attitude and thought everything was dumb and that he was "too cool" for all of activities. Then some things happened that changed his attitude and he ended up having a great experience. He said that during a testimony meeting with his company he felt the spirit so strong -- it was literally a "burning in his bosom."
He acknowledged that we don't always feel an actual burning in the bosom when we feel the spirit, but he said that time he did. It impacted him so much. He said that he didn't share his testimony -- he didn't even want to move because he didn't want to lose that feeling. That really changed things for him. So when he prayed about the Book of Mormon this time he remembered that experience and he knew that he already had a testimony and already knew that the Book of Mormon was true. He said there were many times during his mission when things were "brought to his remembrance" and he felt an overwhelming sense of gratitude for his Savior, for the gospel, and for his family. Jared also emphasized the importance of writing things down when we felt the spirit and received personal revelation. We really felt the spirit during his lesson and both Rick and I got a little emotional. In fact Rick was really weepy on and off the rest of the day.
After the lesson Jaiden went to her rehearsal for dance concert that is coming up this weekend. Jared and Rick had a neat discussion and then we took naps while Jared unpacked and visited with Josh. He was excited to ride his unicycle again and got out his juggling supplies!
Then Rick and I took Jared to the Stake President's house for him to be released. President Nadauld visited with Jared alone for a while and then called us in. He had Jared share some feelings and experiences from his mission and gave him some advice. He asked Jared what his morning routine was (getting up early, exercising, and studying the scriptures) and his first piece of advice to Jared was to continue this morning routine and not let those things slide. He said in following up with missionaries who had been home for a little while he could definitely tell the difference between those who had kept up these important habits and those who hadn't. His next advice was to study the scriptures (which is included in the morning routine). He also admonished him to pay his tithing and asked Jared why he thought that was so important and they shared a discussion about that. He finished with "always having a current temple recommend." At the end of the meeting he had Jared share his testimony. The meeting was really neat and the spirit was definitely present!
When we got home we late a late dinner of marinated barbecued chicken and squash, salad, and rice. Then the kids went swimming! The pool probably felt so good to Jared since he hasn't been able to swim in almost two years! Jared was able to call Janika and then later on Jared's friend, Broden came over to visit. All in all it was a perfect day!
Rick wrote a nice thank you letter to both of Jared's mission presidents and they both wrote glowing letters back about how much they enjoyed working with Jared! I have included Rick's letters and the two letters from the Mission Presidents in my journal.
We had a full day today! We sang "Happy Birthday" to Jaiden and she opened her presents (the ones that had arrived -- there are a few more packages arriving this week). Rick gave her a dozen roses for her birthday and a sweet poem (see next post) asking her out on her "first date." (This was the note that caused the fire -- see next post!!)
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