Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts

Sunday, May 11, 2025

Mother's Day Tea!!

We decided to do something a little different this year for Mother’s Day Tea. Last year we combined it with Father’s Day Flee and just dressed up in various hats and took some pictures. But it felt pretty anticlimactic, and the younger girls wanted to go back to how it was before. So, we decided to have our regular Mother’s Day Tea and dress up. 

However, we wanted to make it more of a celebration of our moms (and moms to be) than in the past and so we decided to have a “runway” where the girls could show off their costumes and pose while the host (Rick – “Shimmy Shawn,”) read a list of accomplishments from the past year with contributions from the husbands and kids. (You can read the script, which includes the list of accomplishments below). Rick had purchased balloons and sticks and put out a "red carpet" with a couple of our maroon blankets. 

We had some technical difficulties (the battery died in the camera, and we tried a couple of different phones. Jenna had to do her “runway” like three times. So next year I will need to make sure it is fully charged!) We also may have to shorten it a bit. After the runway we came upstairs for our tea party which included four step pudding and peanut butter bars (both made by Jenna yesterday) and fruit. I had a few bags of candy that I was going to pull out and then completely forgot!!

I think the best costume this year had to be Jenna, dressing up as me, from my wedding! 😂 She looked great!! Jaiden also killed it as Ken from the Barbie movie, and Janelle and Bryton looked great in their biker get-up. Jase and Ellen's family were so cute as the Little Mermaid characters, and I was Wendy (as in Wendy's hamburgers), and Rick was a random music artist from the 60's. He named himself "Shimmy Shawn." It was fun to get together and laugh at everyone's costumes and characters! 

We did our zoom call with Josh and talked to him for a while and then just chilled the rest of the evening. It was a fun day! 












Model Mothers Runway tributes 2025

Welcome to the first annual Model Mothers Runway show.  This event is a showcase of our mothers and mothers to be.  It displays the outstanding accomplishments of each of these women who have added so much to the world around them.  Before the show begins we’d like first acknowledge the mothers who were not able to attend this event.

·       Marjorie Westra

·       Carol Jensen

·       Janika Jenson

·       Hallie Jensen

We wish them a Happy Mother’s day in their respective places.

Now, onto the showcase of exceptional accomplishments, daring feats, and challenging obstacles that these women have faced within the last year.  The writeups of this program were created by those who share their love for these outstanding women.  We will begin with the potential modern mothers.

The potential Model Mothers

Janelle

Janelle has had a whirlwind of a year.  Currently she is attending BYU as a sophomore, studying Chinese and psychology.  Her hope is to obtain a MA degree in Occupational Therapy.  Though school has been a priority for Janelle, (and she does continue to get good grades even though there are constant complaints about her failing her Chinese tests), she did manage to land one of the most eligible and fantastic men at BYU.  Upon meeting this spectacular gentleman, she set up a date with him and challenged him to kiss her.  He was no match for her Hallmark strategy, and soon, she was able to affix a beautiful diamond on her ring finger.

Her biggest accomplishment of the year was to plan a wedding reception and wedding in St. George without actually being here. She and her new husband were also able to travel to exotic destinations while on their honeymoon, where they experienced various cultures, but most importantly, each other.  He provided me a list of Janelle’s accomplishments in no particular order: 

·       amazing academic report

·       best wife ever award

·       become successful at a new, challenging job

·       weekly temple attendance!

·       advanced mid on the Chinese test

·       started running and already passed me up

·       planned and helped make our wedding happen

·       moved to a new house and made it a home

·       learned how to cut my hair

·       written 2 papers that are super professional and took a lot of work

·       makes me feel like the luckiest guy ever every day!  

Congratulations Janelle on your outstanding year!


Jaiden

Since last Mother’s Day, Jaiden has been serving her mission in Mongolia! She turned 20, rode a camel, celebrated Naadum, ate sheep head, was involved with several baptisms, and was surprised with a Tsagaan Sar farewell party! Since returning home, Jaiden has been attending the temple almost every week and working as a Paraprofessional working at Arrowhead elementary in SPED. She has changed poopy diapers of both nephews, niece,  and students – which will prepare her for the challenges of motherhood.

Jaiden is currently looking for her true love. Though she thought she found them in the mission field, wearing a black name tag -  (both of them), her eyes will now be wide open as she embarks to FSY,  with young men wearing a new white name tag. She will be preparing to be an FSY counselor and will return to SUU in the fall, where she may meet someone with no nametag. We wish her the best of luck in her search in finding her true love.


Jenna

The youngest of the potentials, Jenna Jensen, believes she has different opportunities than her predecessor siblings. She believes this has caused her to excel in many areas.

·       In the past year Jenna danced with both Westside and Southwest dance and started working at Tuacahn.

·       She received the departmental award for Chinese and ended the year with a 4.0!

·       Her summer included FSY, Girls’ Camp, and a Church History Tour! 

·       Jenna auditioned for and made it into Madrigals

·       Jenna started dating and driving this last year!!! She is currently pinning her hopes and dreams on one local boy, but with her looks, personality, and creativity noticed by many young men (even in out of town restaurants), she has the potential to meet and date many more admirers.

·       During the past year Jenna and her friends went to the temple almost every Friday morning.

·       Jenna is finishing her sophomore year with 14 college credits! 

Way to go Jenna!

 

Ellen

This year has been a full and productive year for Ellen. Since last Mother's Day, she walked for her Masters Degree from SUU in professional communications that she received the previous December. With that degree she learned necessary skills for marketing and used that in two businesses she helped start while being a full time stay-at-home mom.

As a mother this year, she accomplished the following feats

  • She changed approximately 1237 diapers
  • She performed over 300 bedtime routines
  • She successfully potty trained her oldest (and most dramatic) child
  • She underwent a full 9 month pregnancy and gave birth to her first baby girl and first full term baby
  • She produced hundreds and possibly thousands of ounces of breast milk
  • She made over 100 dinners 

Ellen Jensen has been an astounding mother and provider for her family. She has wanted to move to St. George to settle down for sometime, but her husband continued to discourage her, saying it would be impossible for him to find the right job. Yes, one of Ellen's greatest accomplishments this year was making even this dream come true by applying for and receiving her own dream job opportunity that moved her entire family down right where she and her family wanted to be. Her hard work and experience in marketing paid off and she now enjoys working as the marketing director for Liberty Village and being a focused mom, supporting her children whenever she is home. In the words of her children:

“I love my mommy because she makes me yummy ice cream and takes me fun places. She reads me books at bedtime and whenever I ask nicely” -Evan

“Mommy is very nice and makes me lots of yummy food. She is kind and reads me stories and plays with me. I love to snuggle with my mommy.” -Eli

“Eeeenglurah” which is interpreted “I love mommy because she focuses so much on me. She makes me yummy milk and loves to hold me and play with me. I love when she comes home from work and gives me all the attention. My mom is so pretty and when she smiles it makes me smile. I could look at her all day” -Elsie

Congratulations on this astounding year Ellen. We look forward to hearing your accomplishments next year.

Wendy

What an outstanding year for this mother of 7 and grandmother of 5.  She makes her debut on the “Model Mother Runway” as someone whose experience and hard work is paying off in droves.

Wendy Jensen’s children have the following to say about their Mother’s accomplishments this year:

·       Janika says:  She has sent less accidental Marco polos to the group 😂 hahaha but really she has given so much love to her grandchildren this year, they adore her. She has done tons of interpreting, serving in callings, and taking care of her family! We love Mom!

·       Jase says:  She has been so willing to help out with her grand babies since we’ve moved to St. George and even coming up to help out when we had Elsie. She has made our transition so easy. She has also been busy interpreting and serving others helping them feel supported

·       Jared says:  Mom has always been the best mom, but lately she has been showing she is the best grandma! She has accomplished many of the amazing book series I’ve recommended to her 😎 but more importantly she always shows she’s a great listener and talks to me about them! I love mom!

·       Janelle says:  Mom has been a huge help for me making big changes in life and always being a listening ear when I was preparing to get married, even when I was a total mess. She has accomplished so much with interpreting and getting into different environments to work, like cruises! I am so thankful for Mom!

·       Jaiden says:  she has been working so hard and being so supportive, helping me to understand my goals and who I want to become and pushing me to achieve them. She was also a huge help to me on my mission, making sure I had all I needed and helping me feeling supported!

·       Josh says:  Mom has accomplished a lot this year -- one of her kids leaving on a mission, one returning, two getting married and having weddings, more grandkids being born, watching the grandkids and helping Jase and Ellen move to St. George, and also working at the same time! Mom has accomplished a ton this year.

·       Jenna says: This year I think that mom has achieved many things. She is so great and the most thoughtful mom anyone could ask for. I love my mom so much she has also become the most sweetest caring grandma. I love all of the long talks that we have. She is so beautiful and my best friend!! I love mom so much for how she always does everything that she can to help me with everything I do. I can remember her spending countless hours helping me with school projects and teaching me patiently to drive. I have also had so many crazy things happen with friends, but she has always been there to listen to me and I am so so thankful for that. Thank you so much mom for helping me with my goals and showing me the type of mother that I wanna be. Happy Mother’s Day!!

·       Her husband says:  Every mother’s day I’m grateful I chose you to bear and teach our children.  You have been and are a magnificent mother. Keeping track of all 7 children’s schedules, through marriages, missions, births and birthdays has been a milestone.  Well done MOM!

 

This concludes our Model Mothers Runway show.  We wish all of you a Happy Mother’s day!

Happy Mother's Day!!

Mother's Day was so fun today!! In sacrament meeting the cute primary children sang "Mother, I Love You," and "Grandmother." We don't have a huge primary, but they sang out loud and clear! All of the speakers did a great job. Ryan Awerkamp shared a funny story about his growing up years when his mom made all the kids clean the house every Friday. They would do this to music. (There was a time I did this with my children too -- they had specific songs for specific jobs.)

He mentioned one particular song where a little girl sang. She had a high voice and an impressive range. He said that she had a good voice, but it became rather annoying to hear the same song over and over while he was scrubbing toilets. Fast forward to high school days when he met and started dating Jeni, who he is now married to. When they started dating he learned that she was the girl that was singing during his chore time!! They had a good laugh, and he won points for knowing all of the lyrics to her childhood hit! (I ran into Jeni and asked her what the song was and recognized it right off when she showed me! Here it is: Two Heads Are Better Than One

After sacrament meeting the young men passed out cookies to all of the women as a Mother's Day gift. There were not any gluten free options, but I took one anyway to give to Rick later.  After church the bishop stopped by our house after church with a bag of two gluten free bundt cakes! He said that they had forgotten to put these out with the cookies! So, I got a better gift, ha ha! That was so nice of him to think of us and stop by with our own treat! After church we had a great meal of hamburgers and hot dogs, potato salad, tomato salad, and fruit. 



Then we all took naps! Here is Eli sleeping next to Grandpa Rick, with each of them wearing their sleep caps. Then I scooted in next to Eli so that I could get nap also. Evan slept in Josh’s bed next to Jase. Some of the others took naps too. (We are a napping family, ha ha!)

Grandma Jensen sent a sweet card with money. She is always so thoughtful!! I am so grateful for my family! They are all so awesome!! Janika and Brandon did a video call to show me the cute gift that Everett and Callan had made for me. It was little succulent plants with their picture on the little pots so that the plants were their hair. Adorable! (Everett has a smoothie mustache in one of them!) 


After naps we started to get ready for Mother's Day Tea!! (I will do a separate post for that). Jaiden posted a funny video on her Instagram story of me holding up my phone to take a picture or video and saying, "Is this recording?" (The kids always tease me about my lack of technology skills). She also wrote a sweet note below: 


Cute notes from Evan, Eli,and Elsie!! 









Sweet text from Janelle: 

Hey Mom! Just wanted to tell you again how much I love you and am thankful for you and your powerful influence for good in my life! I am so grateful that we got to see you today. I am sometimes overwhelmed with what you and dad have done for us, and how much I can never do anything really to repay that and show my appreciation, though I wish I could. Bryton and I have a little surprise for you and dad next time we visit to show our appreciation for you! I hope you know that you are never forgotten and I’m sorry for not getting you something sooner. I love you so so much!!
Sweet text from Jared: 
Happy Mother’s Day mom! I am sad I’m not able to be down there today to give you a hug and let you know how much I appreciate you, but I wanted to just shoot you a message so you know a few of the infinite reasons why I’m grateful for you! 
We recently did a lesson in seminary talking about the importance of marriage and family, and of course I thought about my wonderful wife, but my mind also kept turning to you in the lesson! It made me realize time and time again that God wants us to be in families, because families are the best way for his children to learn and grow— to eventually become as he is. You are the best teacher I’ve ever had in my life! You’ve shown me by example what it means to be kind, patient, charitable, caring, and enthusiastic! 
You always believed in me! It makes me laugh because you even believed in me in the silly things, like for instance there was one home video where I was dancing in the basement doing dumb new years dances and you kept saying things like “Go Jared! Man we should get him in dance classes!” I was awful, but little comments like that in any situation have motivated me so much. You always believed I could do well in school, go on a mission, get married, and I know you have so much trust in me to become a great husband and father! It means the world to me! I have so many different things I want to do, and it seems like you always have faith that I can! 
I love that you are always so organized and efficient with your documenting of our lives. You are always that one person who is always trying to get a picture, and in the moment people might grumble or complain, but you always make sure that we will never forget the important moments of our lives. Sometimes people rush from thing to thing, but I love that you always make sure to let each important moment simmer and impact you and your family. You have been a great example of me to live life remembering. 
You are one of the greatest people out there and I’m proud to call you my mom! I know I can always turn to you when I need and for that I am grateful! I hope you have the best mother’s day ever, and I thank you every day for bringing me into this incredible world to see all the goodness that God has in store for his children! Thank you and Love you!

A collection of memories of my mom for Mother's Day!!

For mother's day this year I decided to compile memories and pictures from the family. It took a lot longer than I was anticipating, but I am grateful that we have these precious memories preserved, and I am especially grateful for my mom!! Love you, Mom! 💕
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Scott and Amy ~ 

I am pretty old and not a good journal writer so my memories may or may not be accurate.  But mom’s memories of me are pretty questionable too.  Every time she tells it, I am more of a prodigy - speaking at 6 days and walking at two weeks. Several things she attributes to me I have no recollection whatsoever. I remember her taking all sorts of classes in her early married years - cooking, cake decorating and some club she has a love-hate relationship with - T.O.P. S. I recall her being super busy with my younger siblings. I remember her ironing in the family room at our Saint Street house and how she teared up watching the moon landing on a black and white TV. After moving to the Hermitage house, mom and dad were part of a “young married” group. One day they had an extra ticket to “Hello Dolly” at the Promised Valley Playhouse and they let me accompany them. It was one of the most remarkable experiences of my life.

I remember her making me go read her journal when there were serious things her emotions wouldn’t let her share vocally. I remember going shopping with her Saturday mornings at Harmon’s on Ft. Union where she used two thousand coupons and then unloading the groceries and cutting off UPC labels (barcodes for you younger folks) and storing them in little recipe boxes. I remember her tearing up during Hallmark commercials and about any other circumstance. I remember how happy (and maybe relieved) she was when I found Amy who loved me. Mom even shared her lasagna recipe with Amy. I admire her devoted and even desperate effort to impart all of the knowledge, wisdom, truth and love she can to her descendants. I hope I can follow her example and be half as successful. - Scott

I remember when my kids were young and Grandma Westra would come over, she would always bring a bag of books to read to the kids.  The kids would always be so excited to see what she had brought!!!   I do the same thing now with my grand kids!! Letti always loves to look in the front of the books to  see if they were given to her mom by grandma Westra!!! Thank you for helping  my kids to love reading !!! Love  you!! --Amy



Chris and Kim ~ 

Mom would always know and be interested in the details - what girl I was interested in, or what test I was taking.  I appreciated that and it always let me know she loved me.  I tried to follow that example and always know enough about my boys that I could ask them specific questions.

Though this is in the later years, I appreciate being taught about investing in assets, and the way that increases your value (and keeps up with inflation).  Buy low, sell high.  Buy and sell in increments.  Don’t panic.  Stay invested long term.  This has made a huge difference in our net worth and lifestyle and my boys have all learned it WAY earlier than I did.

--Christopher


My memory is just of being consistently loved, and appreciating the generosity of mom and dad towards me. We really enjoy our time together, and mom's interest in our life. -- Kim




Wendy and Rick ~ 

I love exercising with Mom in her “swim spa!” It gives us a chance to exercise and visit at the same time! I love being able to talk with Mom and catch up on everyone’s lives! I love Mom’s desire to continue to educate herself and pass along whatever she has learned to her posterity! I love how Mom prays for ways to help her children and grandchildren. Some of those answered prayers have come in the way of opportunities such as FSY, church history tours, and other get-togethers. Inspired ideas that have come to my mom have often been answers to my own prayers. Thank you, Mom, I love you!!
– Wendy 




Jen and Gray ~ 

  • One random "Mom Memory Montage" is Progressive Rummy. I remember her playing with me and my friends back in my high school days. Lots of NewYear's nights in the later years. Once when Mom proudly went "down and out" in the final hand, and had done sets instead of runs (nope! Back up into your hands go the cards). Mom laughing (sometimes to tears) over Grayson's comments. Buying tons of cards (it's just a little 2) ... having multiple legs (I looked under the table, she always only had two legs!), so many possibilities. 

  • Having a birthday so close to Mom, we'd often combine cakes ... and happily we both LOVE the white cake with buttercream icing from Sam'sClub. Quite a few cake memories (including me holding it up and tilting a little to get a better camera view, and it toppling over! Oops. Mom laughed and laughed and said it still tasted good). A birthday picture in 2009 that we re-created 13 years later in 2022. 

  • Recently, it's been fun talking about books and Goodreads, or what TV/Movies we’ve enjoyed. I belatedly jumped on the Wordle bandwagon, but NOT to the extent that Mom loves the game and does all the variations. During Colton's college basketball season, if Mom and Dad weren't out gallivanting, they'd always tune into the streaming games and watch and send little comments throughout and at the end (Mom would watch to the end ... I think Dad might have fallen asleep, as some of them went late). 

  • Blackham Boy Grandma Westra associations might dominantly be a ROTH/Fidelity association. All the birthday and Christmas monies invested, and encouragements to invest on their own. It's something they'll appreciate even more in the future!  Also lots of fun memories at the Havenmoor House. Holidays (Easter and ChristmasEve), Cookies&Cousins, Waffles&Westras. The toy cabinet, the little pool table downstairs, the cave, all the flowers …

  • Once at the Blackham home, we starting making a list of homonyms ... I told the boys that this was something Grandma Westra had done in my early years, as well as teaching us lesser known words like dearth and plethora ... the latter means a lot! -Jen



Shane and Alicia ~ 

I always remember Mom being there for me. Whether it was fixing a huge piece of strawberry shortcake, playing games like Boggle, or just talking, Mom was always attentive and caring. One thing that has really amazed me is how much Mom continues to love, serve, and pray for all her kids and her grandkids, regardless of age, stage, or circumstance. So much of what she still does and how she spends her time is to help her family. - Shane


I remember just after Adria was born, I was so tired and wasn’t feeling like myself. One day Margie announced that she and LaMar would come babysit while Shane and I went to lunch for a date. I hadn’t realized that I needed a little bit of time away until we were at lunch. Now that is something I try to do for young parents around me when I can. Another thing I admire about Margie is her green thumb! I love looking out at the flower beds in the back and enjoy their beauty. --Alicia





Derek and Danielle ~ 

When I think of “Memories of Margie,” I think of: fresh homemade bread with homemade jam, fruit leather drying on the deck of the Hermitage Circle House, meatloaf and lasagna, her dancing around the kitchen with her “exercise tapes,” digging through her purse for a mint or candy during Church, watching Star Trek together, and taking 10 minutes longer than everyone else when deciding what to order at a restaurant. ;) Of her many amazing and admirable attributes, a favorite is her thirst for knowledge. Whether it was consuming BYU Speeches while on the treadmill, reading business books (despite not working in business), learning EVERYTHING about the stock market and family finances, or helping countless people with gospel resources - her insatiable appetite for learning is impressive and rare. Thanks for your amazing example mom! Happy Mother’s Day! - Derek 


There are so many things that I love about Margie! She is the best mother in law I could ask for. She has a love for education and is always learning and sharing her wisdom, allowing others to benefit from her studies. I love how supportive she is of her family, providing love ad support in whatever way is needed, including attending rainy soccer games to cheer on her grandkids. I love how she encourages mental and spiritual growth by providing financial support for FSY, church history trips, etc. It's also so fun to see her competitive side when we play card and board games together. She's just the best and I'm so grateful to know her!

--Danielle



And a few of the grandchildren...  

I admire Grandma's desire to learn more about all kinds of things, but specifically finances. She puts in the effort to make sure she's got accurate information and shares it with her loved ones to help us all plan for a stable financial future. Brandon and I have also loved going to see shows with Grandma and Grandpa at Hale theater! She is thoughtful and loving and it makes me happy to see how much she loves our little family and watching her posterity grow in general. Love you, Grandma! - Janika

I love talking with Grandma about the finances and the stock market. I love getting her opinion on things to help me formulate my own ideas and make better investment decisions. -Jase




I love Grandma so much! I loved going to her house as a kid, and some fun memories I have is convincing her to open up the freezer in the garage so that we could make some papa murphy’s pizza for dinner even though she was always planning on “saving it for later”. Grandma is really good at saving. She has great self control, and she does an incredible job teaching all of us about our futures and why we should save now financially! I’m forever grateful for her wisdom, and what she has taught me about priorities. Love you Grandma!

-- Jared



I love spending time with Grandma and Grandpa, whether we are playing rummikub, playing word streak, or watching jeopardy late at night! Grandma and Grandpa are so generous, Christlike, and service oriented. It is a gift to spend time with them! -Janelle



I remember when I was little Grandma taught us how to play speed rummikub and we would play for hours! As I've gotten older I have learned that the Rummi genes run in the family because I'm pretty good ;)  Grandma - you are so loving and generous, I would be nowhere near where I am without your support! Thank you for helping me to grow and learn, and for helping me make it to efy, the church history trip, and my mission! -Jaiden 



(I didn’t know if I would have time to get an answer from Josh, and so I took his answers from a similar write-up that we did for Christmas). Grandma makes the best warm fresh rolls (my mouth is watering just thinking about it). Oh wait, actually change my answer to that peach jello stuff, that’s the best! I appreciate it when we have time to have long chats about random things. I like to play Rummiku with Grandma. My Grandma also gave me a lot of knowledge and advice for my future!  –Josh 




I love talking about plants with Grandma and walking around her garden and talking about all her different kinds of flowers. I also love playing Rummikub with her! –Jenna 


Rella: Some of my favorite memories are being with grandma in the kitchen! I always love the jello and when she had cherries for us on the kitchen counter. One of my very favorite memories though was when she was making brownies once and asked Alexa how much time was left on her timer. Alexa said there were no timers set and grandma turned to me and made the most shocked and aghast face I’ve ever seen. Grandma is so fun to be around and I love her so much! 💖💖💖




And some other fun pictures!! (In no particular order!!)
 Click HERE for the Google Album!