Monday Dec. 9: The doctor who checked out Jared's thumb last week told us to take him to an Orthopedic Specialist since the fracture was on his growth plate. So today right after school I brought him to Dr. Parry in the Coral Desert Clinic. We had to wait about an hour just to get in to see him and then they couldn't bring up the x-rays on their computer and so they had to take some more. I am sure that means more bills for us. Dr. Parry confirmed the original diagnosis and instructed Jared to leave his splint on full time for three weeks and then part time for the next two weeks. He was also instructed not to do any sports or anything that could cause more damage.
Jared and I got home just in time to gather the family together for the Santa Clara Ward Christmas Party. Rick had been asked if the carolers could perform at the party but he declined since it was on a Monday night and he takes Monday nights off for family night (except for the family show). The party was at the town hall with their traditional live band. Jase and Janika were stressing since it was their only night to do their homework and so they left to walk home early with Rick. It was SO cold outside! Jared also walked home early. I stayed longer with the four youngest since they wanted to run and around and dance with their friends.
Tues. Dec. 10: Tonight was the Final Exam for my class. I stayed after to grade tests and figure out final grades. It is always nice to get that over with. Now hopefully I can find some time to actually go Christmas shopping!
Thurs. 11: Playgroup was at my house. The kids all played together really well. I went to Janelle's class this afternoon to read a story and bring a treat for their "12 Days of Christmas." After school the kids were scrambling to get ready for caroling. I left Jared in charge while I went to the Deaf Center's Employee Christmas Party. They provided dinner from Kneaders, played a fun version of Charades which was hilarious, and gave out awards.
It has
been cold all week and so there was still a lot of snow. Usually when it snows (which is only a couple times a year) it quickly melts within a couple of
hours. So to have snow stay for a whole week is really different! This week has been busy with the carolers
performing all week and with me finishing up all my last week of interpreting,
teaching, and doing final grades. I have
had hardly any time to go Christmas shopping and don't feel ready for Christmas
at all!
Sunday Dec. 15: Today the carolers sang two songs in our hearing ward and
also did the whole program for the Deaf Branch.
They came to our house for lunch in
between the two meetings.
I had made a ham and a huge pan of cheesy
potatoes and then hurried and threw together a green salad and we just cooked
up some vegetables and put out bread and butter and other things.
Everyone in the ward and branch loved the
music went on and on about it.
Rick and
I both spoke in the branch too.
There
wasn't much time left so we kept our talks short.
I was glad that I hadn't spent hours I didn't
have preparing my talk since I only gave a short portion of it anyway.
It has been difficult with Rick and the
kids gone so much caroling.
I don't know
what I would do without Jared's help.
Rick, Janika, Jase, Janelle, and Jaiden come home from work and school and rush to grab something to eat and change and then
take off for the evening or the day leaving behind
all of the dinner mess, dishes, laundry, etc.
I feel overwhelmed and just can't keep up
with it all.
I sometimes wonder if it is
worth all of the time and stress, but the kids really do love it and really
learn a lot from it -- not just our kids, but all of the kids in the
group.
I have had so many parents come
up to me through the years and say how it really changed their son or
daughter's life.
Rick knows that it has
been hard and really tries to do all he can to help out by grocery shopping
early in the morning or late at night -- Christmas shopping, helping out when
he is home and so forth.
Yesterday he
brought me home a beautiful bouquet of roses which brightened up my day.
A few days ago I had someone call us and say "Is
this the Hands in Harmony Carolers?"
I said it was and he said that his family saw our carolers singing at
Kneaders and that they were "the four blubbering." He said that his mom had been diagnosed with
liver cancer and didn't have much longer to live. He said that they had just had a very
emotional day and when they carolers started singing to them it meant so much
to them. He said that it was truly a
"gift from God." He just
wanted to say "thank you." It
was good for me to hear that. They get
those kind of responses a lot, but I don't often hear it because I am usually
not with them. Hopefully sometime this
week I can get out and listen to them and take some pictures and videos. They really do have a great group this year!